Showing posts with label 2010. Show all posts
Showing posts with label 2010. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 29, 2010

The Stupid List

Do you know what a Stupid List is? I don't mean that thing you needlessly create everyday in your iPhone, planner, or head. I mean a list of things that routinely get neglected until something goes wrong and then you say "I can't believe I was so stupid!". That list. It's almost the end of 2010 and now is a good time to attend to your Stupid List. Want a practical example of what should be on said list?

1. Update dog's microchip when you move or else when she runs away and gets picked up by a policeman and taken to the Humane Society they will have no idea how she got from Chicago to Madison. Or how in the world to get ahold of you, her stupid owner who didn't update her microchip info.

See how easy that is? Here's another one,

2. Clean out email contact list so that when your account gets hacked you don't send emails selling *cheapest* electronics to your previous employer and your stylist who moved to Atlanta years ago and that guy you met on a cross country flight before you ever laid eyes on your husband.

On a practical note, how about checking when your passport expires? Wouldn't it be a shame to plan a big beer drinking trip to Belgium and discover that your passport expired the month before? And how about your Facebook privacy settings? Better check on that before you post those NYE pics, huh? Do you have any old email accounts that you don't use anymore? What if a long lost acquaintance sent you a holiday message? You might want to peruse your inbox. If only to remind yourself of who you used to be. My old email address is girlyhood@.... Why? I don't remember, but I like it. Oh and while you're checking old email addresses, google yourself in the advanced search option. It's important to see how you are being portrayed to the world, intentionally or not. Any random credit cards you don't use anymore? How do you know someone else isn't using them? Check your credit report. Like Wilford Brimley says about your blood sugar, "check it often".

Whew, don't you feel productive and organized? Just in time for the new year. You're welcome.

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Note to Self

Dear Future Self,

A year ago, you were sitting at a computer wondering where 2009 went and what 2010 would bring. You were worrying yourself sick about making perfect and absolutely correct decisions. You were changing your mind on a daily basis. And you were driving your poor husband crazy. You're lucky he stuck around! Don't you feel silly now Future Self? Looking back on all that worry...it didn't change a thing did it?

You found a job you really love. And guess what? You're good at it too. When it came down to it, the job found you. All the agonizing about where to live and whether to move closer to family or be in a city you love came down to following your heart. So simple.

Those goals you had for yourself? You know the ones...finish a triathlon, practice speaking spanish, conquer your fear of making bread from scratch, learn how to knit. Well, you reached them all. Not so bad for a year! So stop being so hard on yourself and just appreciate the little victories because they add up to something pretty special.

Future Self, you may not believe me but there will come a time when life is crazy and you and your husband can't hear each other over the noise of screaming kids and you are feeling burned out by the practice of medicine and you no longer have the time to bake bread from scratch. And you will long for these days.

So, a bit of advice from 2009 me to 2010 you. Learn from this year. This wonderful amazing year. It has gone by so fast. Let go of the angst and enjoy the ride. The memories you've created will get you through those crazy years ahead. Promise.

Love,
Present Self